Hi Judy,
I have just ordered your book and can’t wait to read it.
For some reason last night when I lay in bed, I started to get upset about childhood issues. I decided to look up a child that comes after death of a sibling. Wow! One click on google and I realize something at the age of 36! I was a replacement child.
I always knew my position in the family in that I came after death of a brother. But now suddenly I have an actual position that is recognized!
I felt huge relief is all I can say but also amazement at how I did not realize that’s what I was , a replacement child! Feel a bit stupid too.
I ordered your book and I am looking forward to reading it. I don’t feel so alone now.
I am married with kids but have always felt alone and different. Why am I telling you this?! Why email you?! I don’t know. You are a stranger who knows what I am feeling somewhat and after last night revelation I had to tell someone!
Thank you,
Brenda in Ireland
Dear Brenda in Ireland,
Thank you for reaching out with your letter. I’m happy you found Replacement Child – a memoir, and so glad you have found our forum here. I have also found a great deal of healing just knowing that I am not alone, and that being a replacement child is a real thing!
The validation of understanding where many of our issues originate is the foundation for growth as individuals. Keep checking in with us here for more that may be of help. Welcome to our community.
All my best,
Judy Mandel